One of the psychological characteristics of man - the need to communicate. On the other hand life in a big city makes people seek solitude. The boundaries between sociability and withdrawal is very individual. Some people in early childhood may well monitor your social circle, can reasonably entertain. For others, it seems the joy of constant phone calls, evening gatherings, parties at the club.
Getting into a cycle of regular daily conversations, people can become so dependent on communication that only consultation of the psychotherapist will remember that person can show their emotions.
On the influence of musical harmony to develop the child's mind from time to time write and the doctors and psychologists, but most parents who are facing these articles, books just don't read. And to seek answers to the questions "why not" grown up children on their own account.
Gradual withdrawal from normal rational communication to the circuit inside really begins imperceptibly to the individual and to others involved in the everyday life. For others is often a surprise when an adult goes to the monastery, starts to go to Church, read philosophical treatises.
It is in search of emotions kindergarten pupils are very loud scream, and then a primary school their screams can shatter and the Chinese wall. At the age of 10 years old children no longer hear their parents. This period can last quite a long time, maybe a lifetime. Sometimes the need for emotional communication still cut in adolescents receiving a musical education. But without classical music on a normal emotion, you can almost forget.
There are adherents of other educational methods of emotion, but as you know, there are several channels of perception of external information. Accordingly, they must all be involved in the upbringing of kids. And here is the patch that came out, the music takes a leading role.
Often only a psychologist will be able to help deal with the hyperactivity of the child or the isolation of a teenager. Just sit in your apartment watching everyday life, the psychologist will be able to discover the origins of the problem. And should be resolved. There is no "magic button" that will allow the child to finally hear their parents. There is only a long and laborious work of parents over their own self, their emotionality.
Of course, you can educate ourselves. And the search direction may be delayed for life, to lead to a dead end, lead to false conclusions, to introduce pseudo-prophets. And so on through the list of depression. Of course, equally probable and output on a positive phenomenon. It's important to make a reservation, that there is good and bad. There are events that involve the further development with the restoration of optimism, or the usual state of "swamp" remains unchanged.